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Just ask Gerry…

You’re beautiful, intelligent and successful but you can’t seem to find the elusive Mr Right. What are you doing wrong? And more importantly, what can you do to turn your luck around? Just ask Gerry…

Here is a selection of Gerry’s articles - CLICK TO ENLARGE:


Comment from Bianca
Time November 27, 2008 at 12:16 pm

Hi Gerry!!

I’m Bianca from Belgium and I’ve just received your book!
It’s really funny, I really enjoy reading it!


Comment from Levi
Time December 18, 2008 at 5:30 pm

Hey Gerry! Just Wanted To Say Congratulations On Ur New Book x

Comment from mercy
Time March 4, 2009 at 1:47 pm

i had fun reading the book G and hope i can practise with time. Its a great book!cheers!

Comment from Sophie
Time August 27, 2009 at 1:57 pm

Gerry I adore your book! I’m a girl who doesn’t have a problem getting the guys I want - it’s more that the guys I want are usually that certain select breed of poorly educated, unmotivated bad boy who I feel I can “connect” with and get to the bottom of (which is a bit unhelpful as I’m a nurse in a hospital in Cambridge and could do without this rather innappropriate assosiation!) At first I feel I’ve found “the one” and put everything into the relationship, then tend to look at it all with fresh eyes of boredom after a few months and am like “Aaah, so THIS is who he is! What was I thinking!” Your book’s helping me re-tune my radar and start seeing myself as worthy of a real man who respects himself as well as me.

I love your book so much because you speak with such frankness and honesty that I feel you’re actually sitting next to me slapping me on the wrist and guiding me in the right direction! Everything you say, literally every word, makes so much sense and I only wish I had a real life you to give me this no-nonsense non-frilly advice…it would be amazing!

Thank you for this book, and thank you for your ever growing wisdom!♥

Sophie x

Comment from cherrie
Time October 3, 2009 at 12:03 am

nice book!!.. my Q is very complicated..
what happens if he is also playing games?? / also if he knows your playing games.. ??

Comment from Mark
Time February 18, 2010 at 11:23 pm

Hi Mr. Stergiopoulos,

Do you have any advice for a gay man about finding a boyfriend?


Comment from Ranoosh
Time August 19, 2010 at 4:17 pm

Hey Gerry, i’m in the process of reading ur book but i’m loing it so far..i just got out f a relationship a couple of months ago coz i found out that my ex was cheating on me and that he had another gf, even though we weren’t (in his words) “officially together” coz we were facing some problems, but who are we kidding, we WERE together..and i actually found out that he was with this girllike 5 months ago when we were on a break but i forgave him for that. Anyway, now i’m torn between feeling angry at him and sad about the whole thing, i sooo longing for revenge,and i dn’t know how to do that,coz i seriously wana move on…Any advice????

Comment from Chiara
Time September 9, 2010 at 1:44 pm

Hi Gerry,

I’m Chiara (34 years old) from Italy. I read several books about “how to manage men” and yours is the one that most impressed me and cleared up my mind.
Last winter I started dating this guy, who was dating at the same time other girls. He’s famous for his thousands of ex-girlfriends he broke with, because he got bored, they wanted to marry him, or more serious relationships.
So, I began follow your advices as much as I could. After 2/3 months he broke with the other girls and wanted to stay only with me.
Now, back from summer holidays, he asked me to live together in my house (he still lives with his parents) and next year he will look for a bigger apartment. I postpone 3 months the moving date saying I need to fix my house and need more time for my-self, but he insisted he wants to live with me, and so I postpone of just one month.
I’m very happy that he’s still very excited of me and keeps complain that I am not involved in this relationship the same way he is. But, I’m afraid he’s going to get bored after we will start living together.
I kindly ask you an advice about this fear of mine.
Thanks again

Comment from Thasha
Time April 26, 2011 at 8:28 pm

Hi Gerry!

your book is doing magics for me, I finally got my Mojo back! Men are following me like crazy and other girls are envying me.

Let me tell a bit about myself: I dated my dream men for 3 years and he dumped me to marry another girl! During those 3 years with him I was nothing more than his doormat, we were staying together and I was giving him everything on the plate, sex, cooking 3 course meals, breakfast and dinner, pack lunches for work, ironing, buying him gifts, washing up etc! Looking back I was a slave in love! He never introduced me to his family and he was not keen to do so. I was phoning him constantly, looking for him in his work place only to be told thats he was already married! I became depressed, hurt, lost my mind and stopped dating alltogether!

Then early this year I bumped into “Treat them Mean & Keep them Keen”! I read it and followed every step in it. Suddenly men are just everywhere! Two men even proposed for marriage without even sleeping with me! To make matters worse I am massive dress size 22- age 34, so my skinny friends (who are dumped by man after man!) are so ENVIOUS!
This book has changed my life for the best. NOW I AM A MAN MAGNET!! LOL

Thasha from Scotland (U.K)

Comment from Genny Fiscella
Time July 15, 2011 at 6:31 am

I am very pleased to find.I want to say thanks for your time for this wonderful read!! I definitely enjoeyed every little bit of it and I have you bookmarked to check out new stuff you blog post.

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